For a fun, extreme example of this in action, see this video from The Princess Bride. Often your best move in that situation is to keep your mouth shut and simply stay out of their way. We all know these people, right? They ask questions but can't wait for you to finish so they can offer their own viewpoint. Sometimes they don't even bother waiting and instead try to hurry you along with verbal cues-- "uh-huh, uh-huh, right, right, right When they asked for advice, what they really meant was, "Let's fast-forward to the part where I tell you what I think, instead.
To paraphrase baseball great Yogi Berra, you can observe a lot by watching , and you can also learn a lot by listening. A lawyer once told me about selling a client's company. To make a long story short lawyers love that phrase , the negotiation went much more smoothly than she'd expected.
Eventually, she realized this was because some whiz-kid M. That led him to overestimate vastly how much money the acquiring company would likely make after the deal was done. The lawyer was overcome with apprehension, until she realized the right thing to say: nothing at all. That way, she wouldn't be breaching her duty not to misrepresent facts to the buyer, but she also wouldn't do anything to scuttle her client's deal.
The moral of the story is that you don't always have an obligation to correct someone else's mistakes. Silence is awkward. As a result, people often rush to fill it. I used to use this tendency to my advantage when I was a trial attorney taking depositions in civil cases.
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